For 20 of my 20 years of life I had some good fortune (for real, not relative) that what I consider "my family" that is, my extended family (including grandparents and some aunts and cousin) lives near where I live (or, in the early days, living in the same place most of them). That will surely frighten the most independent, for me, strangely, has never been something to fear, but on the contrary, something nice, I must say, gives me confidence.
Moreover, having to move out of home when you're about 70 years and really want to live with the least amount of problems and changes (though it is very difficult in these times of world) is possible, at least, disconcerting .
happens that my paternal grandparents house changed, and if While the fact was more announced, the fastest way that things are going it is still surprising. And there are things you know they should pass, that are necessary, sometimes desirable, and yet one has the strange hope that time never believe will lead us to them, they are there only on paper, which not be specific. Things like death, like life without school pass, and your football team is gone.
Faced with this strange reality, and the remoteness of the change say it is not exactly Maipú closest thing (although I'm still young, or I think, but what I'm saying is that I can tolerate more good than bad 3 hours Travel by bus ... Moreover, Transantiago generally well behaved with me, I'm a rare breed), I must admit I'm not exactly his most impact the change of course. But come. Arrives and must conclude that they will not have card games or pet dog five minutes away, which on rainy days like this will be much more difficult to make the buns and homemade bread that my grandparents often do, when to take micro ago in Bandera wait no longer my grandfather comes up to the 202.
However, we must also think that is an instance which will involve making good things about her. The distance in human relationships is not necessarily a synonym for loss or damage. Distance relationships between people puts us face a dilemma: to consider useless and lost the fight, or to show the value of those, and not just show it, but to prove it ... Of course, that implies an effort sometimes seems considerable. But the dilemma is not a forced choice for an option, but that puts them into one's hands. And I already know what choice I make in this case.
Some things changed necessarily. Not bad. It is not easy.
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